Mark Reid, Marriage & Family Therapist
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About Mark
You can create a satisfying relationship regardless of your childhood, past injuries, or current circumstances. Your problems, including betrayal, are opportunities. Even a crisis can be the motivation to learn the right tools to succeed. I will help you repair, recover and rebuild a new relationship based on principles of fairness, justice and sensitivity.
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How Does Therapy Work

​Why do you keep reacting in ways you don’t fully understand?
Why does insight not always lead to change?
Why is it so hard to stay calm, open, or connected—especially in the moments that matter most?

You might know what you should do… and still not do it.
You might want to feel calmer, more connected, or more in control—but find yourself reacting the same way again and again.

It’s not because something is wrong with you. This isn’t a failure. It’s a pattern.

Often, different parts of you are trying to protect you—using patterns that once made sense, but may no longer serve you now. Therapy isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding what’s happening inside, learning how to respond differently, and reconnecting with a steadier, more grounded version of yourself.
Learn what actually helps therapy work